Friday, December 26, 2025

Life in a Snow globe

 

It’s snowing here. Certainly not an unusual thing in Canada in winter. This snowfall has big flakes that some people will tell you would indicate that it will not last long.  But the forecast calls for this storm to last for many hours and to deposit 10 – 15 centimeters.  Unlike some storms, there are no high winds or blizzard like conditions.  The snow falls gently. Looking out the window is like living in a snow globe.

Do you remember snow globes, or do you still have one? You know, the spherical things that show a serene winter scene and are full of clear viscous liquid and white flakes. When you shook the globe up, or turned it over briefly, the flakes would rise and then descend gracefully through the liquid. They always had a nostalgic look.

Nostalgia seems to permeate this holiday season.  It’s as if we are trying to grasp some ideal and hold on to it. Some may argue that this is a modern phenomenon called up by the troubling times we seem to be experiencing.  But it’s not. Nostalgia has been a part of the celebratory season for as long as I remember, and I’m in my eighties. And like it or not, times have always been challenging for those living it at the time. We reminisce about holidays past.  We think about those who have gone. We remember about our childhood, or of our younger years. This is not a bad thing. It is a reflection of who we are and how we got here. It could and should be positive. But there comes a time when the snow globe fades and the snow disappears and we have to reenter the current world. But hopefully we will do so with a more positive attitude, and we will continue to try and make the world a better place.

Wednesday, December 3, 2025

The Weariness of Christmas

 Are you stressed about Christmas yet? Are you weary of the whole experience? It would appear that you are not alone. You are probably stressed if you’re not ready for Christmas. You’re probably weary if you are ready.

I have a favourite Christmas decoration showing a woman with an armful of wrapped gifts, her hair standing up and a look of pure frustrated emotion on her face.  The caption – the ghost of Christmas stressed. I have a feeling that there are a number of you that can relate to that ornament.

The stress comes from trying to figure out all of the things you have to deal with this season. What should I get the kids for Christmas? What about my spouse? Brothers/sisters, parents, visitors, friends?  Would Bob really like or ever wear that Christmas sweater? Should I get my wife a new crockpot? And the list goes on.

And then there is entertaining. It’s your turn this year to host dinner on Christmas day.  At you sister’s house last year, she put on a great celebration; lots of good food, nice gifts for everyone, and the right wine.  Am I supposed to equal that, or even do better? We want to make the best Christmas ever.

Just thinking about this makes you stressed and weary.  And Christmas is only three weeks away.

Wife, “Have you done your Christmas shopping yet?”

Husband, in a panic, “Why? Is it Christmas Eve already?”

I know, I’ve used that before. But it does reflect what a number of people go through, particularly men. (Confession, I’ve been guilty of that myself. Thank goodness for the friendly jewelry store.)

The questions you have to ponder. When should I start my Christmas shopping? How many should I invite for dinner? How can I keep Cousin Jack from getting drunk? And so many more.

How about this for a question, Where does the celebration of Jesus’ birth fit in?

You aim for the greatest Christmas.  Or was it last year’s? Or when you were eight years old? Wrong on all counts.

The greatest Christmas came over two thousand years ago when a baby was born in a manger in Bethlehem in Judea.


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